Borderline Personality Disorder

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  1. I was the red ball this whole time, and I wonder why she did all the stuffs she did. But then this video tells all the story in 5 minutes wow. πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘πŸΌ

  2. I had seen this animation years ago and thought "God they must be monsters" and I just got diagnosed with bpd a week ago and was looking up videos to help me….. fuck.

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  4. This is just Bi-polor disorder. Just like manic depression eventually it will be proven that the two disorders are the same. Alot of people get misdiagnosed and live years with it until finally someone brings up bi polor disorder and the real process starts.

  5. i- i haven’t cried this much in ages
    when the symptoms started crowding around him at the end and then he saw the ball being happy with someone else i lost it

  6. there is some one I really enjoy being around lets say, they got this for sure but I still have feelings for them, I also feel I can help them overcome this obstruction in there life, is this possible since the emotional imbalance they suffer from or is there some way you wont fade away to them or they just one day become disinterested.
    If this gets buried in here just would be cool to get a response, this is making my hart feel kinda like static, it hurts to love a person that could not feel the same way.

  7. I've been diagnosed just a few weeks ago so I roamed around the web to get an understanding of what I have.

    You made me chuckle. Thank you! I needed that

  8. This is the most beautiful way of describing BPD. Other videos and articles make it seem so scary. I really needed that, thank you

  9. They cry a lot.
    *Cries when it shows "they can be very kind" *
    It's been a rough night for me. I've been crying all night thinking about suicide and harming myself for certain reasons. I'll pull through. if you're reading this, please don't give up, keep fighting. <3
    Very beautiful video. Thank you so much for making it. As a person with BPD, I can relate 100%

  10. I need help.
    I think there is something wrong with me, and the more I search for it, more I think is BPD, but I still have doubts.
    I never had anything REALLY traumatic, and the things that potentially were traumatic, I feel no feeling towards them whatsoever (although it can change from time to time).
    And, I usually feel like I’m in a gray area, and anything and everything can be a reason for me to go from 1 to 100 really fast, for exemple, I didn’t study for an exam (something that usually makes me REALLY stressed and REALLY anxious), didn’t cause me any feeling whatsoever.
    But my aunt told me I was spoiled, and to that, I got mad at her (although I didn’t shout or anything, I just kind of won debates with her inside my head) and when she was gone, I was so sad, I cried a bit, and then cutted my thighs so much that they are still burning a bit (and that was 3 days ago).
    And I just don’t really know if it is BPD, because most times I feel almost numb to anything and everything, and there are moments where if you look at me the wrong way, I may get really pissed, or really sad.
    And It’s not something like bipolar disorder.
    Bc to me, that can change from like, 2 hours to 1 day, or a week.
    (For exemple, I get β€œstable” for some time, and then I go back to be an axious, depressed, and angry person again, and then stable, but it always seems like β€œthe higher I go, the bigger the fall will be”, so even when I’m β€œok” I feel like I’m just a trainwreck waiting to happen)
    If someone with BPD can talk to me, I would be really glad.
    (And btw, It can also be just a phase for me, I didn’t roled that one out yet(

  11. I was resently diagnosed with BPD.. And seeing this video actually tears me up. I've been struggling to find a way to explain what i'm experiencing to others.. Now i can show them this video..

    And its amazing that you put the positives about us, BPDs, at the end of the video.. Through out the video i was like "Oh no. Im a bad person.". By the end of it, "Yeah.. I am that.."

  12. As someone with borderline personality disorder, this video was really sweet to me because it was informative

  13. I show a lot of symptoms of this disorder and I'm having a hard time finding therapists and doctors who think it's a real disorder and/or don't treat them
    Or they think I don't have it because I'm "not as agressive as people who have pbd" yeah, like they've never seen me have a meltdown, or what my day to day life is like with me relating to a lot of these symptoms.
    Does anyone have any advice?
    If I don't know what I have I can't seek the right treatment.
    Edit: I have also had several medical professionals suggest I have this disorder

  14. i saw this a while ago and just found it again now and i just wanted to thank you. as someone w bpd we rarely get representation like this. you managed to educate while also accurately representing what some of us go thru. the end really hits so very close to home and always makes me emotional. thank you for not demonizing us.

  15. I'm so damn scared, have no idea what to do with my life. this video show me what I knew about the disorder but I can't tell if I really got this

  16. I'm late, but someone needs to tell me what is my problem. Every two weeks or months (It depends), my mood change very fast. Around 15 minutes I feel differents emotions and always in order. It comes by nowhere. I can just watch the TV and my mood start changing. It starts by deep sadness as everything I accomplished just disappear and I just feel alone. After, I think of suicide, during those moments, I am in a total depression, I did a lot of things to myself because of this (cut, hit head against a wall, suicide tentation,etc). After the sadness and feeling of depression comes the anger, but it gets dangerous. In those moments, I want to kill someone. Everyone. I once tried to kill my step mother during this period. I have very bad ideas like burning my school, killing the people passing in the street, etc. Finally, after the anger comes a big feeling emptiness. I feel nothing. I'm just numb. I can't feel sadness anymore nor anger or happiness. Just nothing. And then, my normal mood comes back. Also, I am pretty impulsive, if someone do something or say something really bad ( like an insult ) I always have the idea of killing them. And I have to stay quiet for 15 minutes again, because if I say something it will probably a threat of death. And I need to do nothing. Because I just have the ambition to kill this person or to destroy their life. I just want them to regret it. If someone I really love say something that hurts me, I will feel like i am in depression. Deep sadness again. In the life of everyday, I feel like I am a sociopath. I hate everybody and just wants to be alone. I am very hypocritic and I don't like my friend, I stay with them just because I don't want to be alone in school. I feel empathy for some people (more for one of my friend). Please I need to know what is my problem, I am not normal. I feel like I am bipolar, sociopath, boderline and psychopath during my anger period. Some of you could think I just don't care of being like that because of my hypocrisy, but I hate feeling like this. Before, I felt unique. Nobody could know how I felt, but by the time, the emotions were worse and it is harder to control. I don't want to hurt others, i'm dangerous to myself and to everyone. I don't want to be diagnosed, I am sure I can control it If I know what it is. Sorry if I made mistakes, English is not my first language. Thank you for your answers

  17. I have bpd and when he lied on the floor and started thinking with his friend with another I started crying I cant relate more

  18. The ball is my best friend, him getting away from me is a mixture of his mental issues (bipolar) and my persistent pressures for validation, he had to take time off last year, he wouldn’t talk to me and Innearly killed myself but I fucking love him he is a great man, I’m so frightened that he’ll die or hell realise he can do far far better than me. I want to die perhaps he can have a more stable friend than me.

  19. Nothing I can say will depict how much this video means to me. Needless to say I laughed and I cried. I'm buying merch rn.

  20. Before I was diagnosed with Bpd I let it ruin my life & destroy my relationships. But seeing this video and reading the comments make me feel so much better. Thank u

  21. my aspergers and bpd combo had me like β€œwhat does the ending even mean???” then i read the comments and started sobbing

  22. In the beginning we can see Borderline Bill seeing people, he sees a happy couple, and is sad, a girl tries to approach him but he shots her (shut her down), that's when he meets the red ball (Mr. Nice), he screams at the ball, but it doesnt move and stays close, and he grows fond of it. Through the video a lady interacts with Bill, he thinks she is nice, but she leaves him and he thinks she is the devil, then the ball comes close again, showing it never left him. Then we see him overthinking that the ball is dangerous, and he puts chains around it (symbolizing a restricted relationship), but he stops and shows that he actually cares about the ball, and loves it; In the end, because of the weight of all the symptoms of the BPD, he kicks the ball far away. He misses it and overthinks about how the ball is happy without him. And he realizes he is all alone, and the music stops.

    Sometimes we get so caught up on what our diagnose is that we forget the good things about ourselves, and the things we have as an individual and not a mental condition, and end up pushing people who care about us away.

  23. The part where the dog kicks the ball then started to miss it really hit me, I often push away people I love hoping I won't be so dependent of them
    Yet after some time, I realize I need them more than anything and that without them I feel hurt.
    I'm not sure if I have bpd, I've seen many videos about it and realized I have a lot of those symptoms but I've never gotten a diagnosis
    hope I can gather the courage to get one some day

  24. Sometimes I think that I don't have that fear of abandonment but I shutted down almost every single one I knew and if my current friends left me I would go crazy so– 🀦 but still I think that nowadays I manage abandonment better than before, the sad part is that this makes me feel invalid and bpd was something that explained to me why I'm like this, so when I feel like I don't have this anymore, I get so frustrated and anxious, filled with nervous thoughts like "who am I now?" "Did I ever had bpd anyway?" "What will describe me now?" It's sad that we really lose our minds when there aren't any words to describe us and make us feel better even when we know they are just letters..

  25. It is suspected that Borderline actually effects men and women equally (after all how could a mental illness specifically target one sex over the other?), and that men are severely under-diagnosed, it is believed that a lot of men in prison have it, after all we're talking about the inability to control your emotions, you can imagine how this might turn violent, not that it's an excuse mind you, I'm just saying.

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  27. Before they changed the β€œnice” girl to β€œslut” I literally said β€œno she’s a slut” out loud lmfao

  28. I've been diagnosed with BPD this year after a very bad episode and I've avoided looking for videos about it because I know the stigma, I've never hurted anyone or myself while desperate to make them stay, which I guess is where most the stigma comes from, but I'm very sensitive and wasn't ever in a strong headspace to try and find something to identify with. But thanks for this, it was very truthfull and nice.

  29. Borderline was seen as the border line between psychosis and personality disorder. Nowaday's we know borderline is not a psychotic disorder, but they are more prone to psychosis. But many other disorders can also make you prone to psychosis, it's not the same as having a psychotic disorder like schizofrenia for example. A borderliner doesn't have to have psychotic episodes while you must be at least 6 months or longer psychotic to have schizofrenia.

  30. I looked into it further after randomly getting recommended this video literally a few months after I finally started seeking treatment for my depression and was diagnosed with it shortly after. I just wanted to come back here to thank you or allowing me to find that direction so I can actually understand myself.

  31. Is there an natural alternative of medication when you're too afraid to take them? Meet people, do theater, play music instruments or other?

  32. I have BPD and fight daily with the stigma, even my self imposed stigma. It’s lumped in ( erroneously and to our detriment ) with anti social personality disorder- in many ways it is the antithesis of that. Keep ur head up. We are kind!

  33. Suddenly realising that all of these symptoms I've been exhibiting during the past few years have been bpd symptoms. Bpd sucks man

  34. No time to read the bloody lines for God’s sakes!!!!! And I have borderline disorder what’s ya name! 🀬

  35. When you’re try to convey something to your audience you shouldn’t just name the animation what you’re talking about. Just like avengers endgame is it named β€œpowerful people fight. I’m a cat and I even know this. But still a really good animation

  36. I saw this before I was diagnosed, it seemed so much like me but honestly I had no idea the diagnosis was coming.

  37. 4:03 is tipic to make ideas on the head about being lonely, This put me so down, because is true, we r so sensitive, but for some reason live with fear and up and downs And we forget about life

  38. Thank you for treating this video so kindly, i had to watch a million times because i always get different feelings.

  39. I wish my family and my friends could understand that I'm not a bad person. I try my best to please all of them, but sometimes I can't. I try to change myself, but I need their support too.

  40. I saw this video years ago.
    And I still feel like im about to cry with the last sentences.
    "They can be good to babys
    Or good artists

    They are very kind people"

    Sometimes I remeber those words, in the middle of the street. And feel a little bit better.

    Thank you.

  41. If anyone here hasn't got bpd and thinks because of this that it's just some harmless quirk that makes people a bit sensitive then try going out with someone who has this disorder, you will fucking regret it.

  42. i'm sorry …i have to say that i dont really like the video representation of borderlines….it doesnt really represent the disorder …what is shown in here is smtg pretty much everyone feels related to….now checking the comments all of a sudden …people started diagnosing themselves as bpds …while the disorder is a bit more complicated

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