Would She Still Date Him After He Says This….??  | Tell My Story, Blind Date

Would She Still Date Him After He Says This….?? | Tell My Story, Blind Date

[Music] my ideal woman is like someone that you see walking down the street and you’re just like damn she’s attractive like she has a nice smile but you see like she has like a sophistication about her ideal guy is a little scruffy looking maybe you’re mountain man I’m not super picky when it comes to appearance it’s mostly the things that the appearance says about you that I’m more interested in like how long did you spend on your hair today [Music] your name is chase and this is your story you are 31 years old for work you are in marketing promotion your cultural or ethnic background is black and maybe Nordic somehow my name is actually feel I am 31 and one of the jobs that I have is a marketing like brand rep and I am black not sure I don’t know what Nordic is but I’m not Nordic your name is Nicole and this is your story you are 25 for work you are a bartender your cultural ethnic background I think it’s Caucasian my name is Megan 29 years old for work I’m an actor and I am white I grew up on a farm my mom rode horses my dad was a pilot I’m kind of a hippie because like I’m really strict about not wasting things and trying to be sustainable and I don’t use normal shampoo and conditioner on my hair I’ve had my heart broken with my most recent relationship sometimes it seems like it’s just you and the other person doesn’t necessarily have the same vision as you like just completely destroys relationship your first concert you’ve ever went to was in sync you’re guilty music pleasure is idiom and your favorite type of music is pop all right first concert I went to was meat loaf I’m not guilty about EDM but my guilty pleasure is probably like emo and I’m not a pop person my favorite type of music is oldies okay first concert you ever went to is like a John Legend you’re guilty musical pleasure is like emo ish stuff and your favorite type of music is jazz my first concert I haven’t went to like my mom took me to like a Janet Jackson concert it was like a long time ago my guilty pleasure is actually like EDM music and my favorite type of music is hip hop when you say like like emo music me like like R&B or like like like you having a breakdown or something to play I don’t know it’s like guys with guitars okay like pour out their emotions okay maybe I didn’t necessarily grow up with both of my parents I live with my mom most of my life and then when I got high school I moved with my grandmother so what I was like very observant about what’s necessary in order to have like a great stable family my dad was home a lot even though he was the worker the breadwinner he was probably around more than my mom he worked probably less than half of the month so we always had dinner together no matter how much like I was fighting with my mom which I did a lot the good thing about my mom was that she made me super independent you want to get married sometime in the future your greatest fear about married life is getting trapped and the main role of a man in the marriage is to provide the role of a woman in a marriage is to be supportive and mostly raise the family I do want to get married sometime in the near future my greatest fear about married life is being lied to the role of the man is definitely the provider and I think the role of a woman in their marriage is to support you want to get married sometime in the future your greatest fear about being married is being lied to and you think the role of a man in a marriage is to be a leader and the role of a woman is to support I don’t know if I want to get married sometime in the future my greatest fear about married life is feeling controlled the role of a man in a marriage is to just do his thing in the world of a woman it’s just do her thing I have weird thoughts on marriage I don’t I am a very free bird I probably tough for a lot of guys to deal with i man I think I have a general idea – I grew up in a pretty traditional family like my dad worked my mom stayed home but even so she was not a normal home maker wife I got from her this sense of like I just want to do whatever I want as far as like the rose in marriage it’s just what I’ve witnessed that like works just from like having conversations with like older people who are married we’re like in a new age but it’s still like you go out on a date like the man put out your check and pull out that card like you pay like you you provide it’s not to say like the woman is like beneath the man it’s just like as a man like you just feel better when you feel better like about yourself I have a big fear like guys expecting me to be a certain way but all that being said I feel like such a hypocrite because I do love getting taken out like a guy paying for it like doing the courting phase [Music] at the beginning I said I would date you he seemed like sweet and you actually seemed a little shy and then now after we have talked I changed their traditional roles of marriage and stuff I think because I am so afraid of like getting pinned down that I’ve learned to just be like don’t even try to wrestle with it all right at the beginning I said that I would date you like even still after hearing like your answers and like how we have certain differences like I still would they too because just for like though like you seem like you know how to have like a really good time awesome I mean not really disappointed it sucked but you know you can feel it like where it was gonna go some people would like dismiss things before they even get a chance to test it out I think it’s great to kind of get the important stuff out of the way but yeah I wish I could do this with like every every potential nice to meet you [Music]

100 thoughts on “Would She Still Date Him After He Says This….?? | Tell My Story, Blind Date

  1. I've read the comments before watching the video and thought this was going to be a cringe fest because of all the comments that said the woman was being rude. She wasn't, at all, imo. I think they're both very nice people, though I can see why some would think that.

    In her defense, no one is entitled to date anyone just because they seem nice or they look attractive. Like most things in the world, relationships aren't black and white, some work and some don't. Even the nicest persons break up, that's just how it is.

    Just my two cents.

  2. They're both normal dude was hotter and more "relatable" ppl here r sooo biased she was fine and yall don't have a psychology degree and are basically just judging her from the way she acted

  3. It’s so telling that the majority of people on these episodes think “White” is an actual answer for cultural/ ethnic background

  4. i'd take this guy lmao. although i disagree with the wife should be a support. i don't mind the man to be a provider because i'd like that, that's how i've been raised to think, but i want to pursue my own dream. i'm also a free bird but i want to be loved and i don't mind being tied down by someone who won't limit the length of my chain.

  5. why do americans say caucasian to white people??
    caucasus is a montain in Russia, and this is the only place where CAUCASIANS live.PERIODT

  6. U dont have weird thoughts girl, everybody does their thing and men and women dont have "roles" nowadays, get over it ppl

  7. I feel like they might be a pretty good couple. Megan is like a bubbly, motherly person. Phil is very loving and caring. Not the best couple, but pretty good.

  8. Somebody need find his social 👀. But he’s 31 might not be into social media.
    Mr.Handsome if you see this. Heyy 👋🏾

  9. Typical jewish anti-white propaganda.
    -White girl: "Nordic? I don't even know what that is."
    How does anyone not seriously catch this?

  10. Some of these videos are pretty good, but I can't help but think they purposefully pair people up who have little in common simply to provide good entertainment. I guess I can't blame them cause I keep clicking, but still. I don't know

  11. I'm way more attracted to girls outside my culture (which i won't mention what it is), at the same time men of my heritage especially myself, most of us aren't that attractive to women of the outside world, except for the far north western part of my country … but i know for almost 100 percent and from experience of people around me knowing 1000s of people within my culture, that marrying with a woman of my heritage will not lead to a divorce, without controlling my spouse or telling her what to do. We see a marriage as a permanent relationship no matter what, without the feeling of being trapped its a blessing to have this available. Its no fault of men and women outside my culture nor do i see myself better than them, its just how the world works today. If i wasn't born into my background i'd be in the same boat.

    Its a sad reality that i can never marry a woman that i won't be physically attracted to as much as others, but that's life. I was born and bought up in the western world and i could never be with the girls i had a crush on nor did they find me or men of my culture attractive and they openly said it and it was common knowledge. You could probably guess what country or region my parents and grandparents come from 🙂

  12. "I don't want to be controlled"-I view marriage as a man controlling a woman. Then next sentence-
    I do like to be taken out"=hypocrite. "I don't want to be pinned down"-yea this is someone I'd really like to date (sarcasm). She seems cute and fun but this is the problem I've had with this type of woman who is free spirited, says she doesn't want to be controlled, but also wants some forms of chivalry (men paying for dates, being protective etc)-You want your cake and to eat it to. Nothing is ever 50/50 in these relationships. She is doing whatever she wants and you're just going along with it. Or the man is doing what he wants too which isn't really about 2 people coming together. There really isn't even a relationship, where closeness, intimacy, etc can develop…because she's too focused on doing her own thing in fear of being controlled or pinned down and he's trying to make a relationship happen that isn't going to happen. Take my advice…stay away!

  13. He’s so fine, I would’ve definitely said yes. I understand the whole sexist questions answers but I don’t think he meant it in the wrong way. It was just how he was raised and it didn’t seem like he would force that on someone.

  14. Actually she is really beautiful and gorgeous and she does have a super cool personality and her laugh is just wow I love it but she's really hott

  15. Why's everyone being so rude to Megan? Clearly she doesn't want to be in a controlling relationship and the guy does, so what's wrong with turning him down? Just because he's cute doesn't mean she has to go out with him lmao.

  16. As soon as she saw him she was so disappointed 😂😂😂 I was about to die of laughter🤣🤣 she was so transparent.. that guy is an idiot he culdnt figure it out… I see a desperate one here taking abt past relation and how he was hurt..seeking sympathy.. clearly she had to refuse.. Intelligent girl figured him out so fast 🤣🤣🤣

  17. There are no roles in marriage. There’s a simple agreement: whoever has a higher paying job should mostly support the family financially and no one cheats on each other. I hate traditional marriages because they lead to a bias when gender roles are out and ethic roles are in.

  18. Why is it a common trend to hate on the people who reject the other person?? They clearly didn’t mix at ALL and honestly she was being a sweetheart in my opinion. She was accepting of everything he said 🤨. He was pretty laid back and polite too. I thought she was making those faces to be like “oh yaaa I knoooww” like some people do to exaggerate how relatable they are lol.

  19. i knew they are not compatible just from the tone and the way they speak , the brother wants a serious relationship based on commitment , trust and responsibilities , and she's the type that want to " eXplOre hEr PlaCe iN tHe uNiveRse " because her horoscope told her so

  20. "I am white "-she is so arrogant and the name Meghan is not an indicator of wisdom. He is very conservatuve .

  21. she is rude arrogant and makes me wonder if she is on drugs. He is such a nice guy
    anyone will be better for him .anyone

  22. Your name is nicole..
    First of all, my name is megan…..what is the difference.?

    Also, he is way to precious for her. She seems so rigid and cocky! Kind of distasteful… completely mismatched..

  23. The day average americans understand the difference between ethnicity and race the world will end basically. Come on folks, it's not that hard.

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